Banyak anak merasa dilarang terus sama orang tua ? Saat anak dilarang akan merasa tidak aman, tetapi orang tua perlu temani. Orang tua perlu bersahabat dengan anak dan menyampaikan arahan dengan jelas, bukan hanya melarang. Jadi tidak ada yang instant, orang tua perlu sabar dalam prosesnya. Di dalam prosesnya, anak akan paham hati orang tuanya dan mendapatkan hubungan kasih.
[Efesus 6:4] Dan kamu, bapa-bapa, janganlah bangkitkan amarah di dalam hati anak-anakmu, tetapi didiklah mereka di dalam ajaran dan nasihat Tuhan.
Many kids feel like they’re always being told what not to do by their parents. When kids are forbidden, they feel insecure. But parents should accompany them, be their friends, and give clear guidance. Parenting takes patience; it’s not an instant fix. Through the process, kids will understand their parents’ love and develop a loving relationship.
Ephesians 6:4 (KJV) And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
